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129 | from diagnosis to adulthood: author Carrie Cariello’s insights

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this episode, Dr. Tay speaks with Carrie Cariello, a mother of five, including an autistic young adult. Carrie shares her family’s journey, advocacy work, and the unique challenges and triumphs of raising an autistic child. They discuss practical strategies for fostering independence, the importance of community,…

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128 | ACT and neurodiversity affirming approaches in ABA with Unfurling Littles

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this episode, Dr. Tay hosts Maggie of Unfurling Littles and explores Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) from an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) lens. They discuss how to incorporate neurodiversity-affirming practices into ABA to create a compassionate, child-led approach. Maggie shares her journey into the field, her…

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127 | launching “EVOLVE the membership”: in-depth neurodiversity affirming education + support

If you find value in this podcast and want even more support, tune in to learn about “EVOLVE the membership.” This new membership offers a lower-cost, flexible alternative to traditional clinical services, designed to provide accessible support and education for autism families. I share personal insights about my journey from academia to entrepreneurship, the challenges…

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126 | AAC part 2 with speech therapist Rachel Madel

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Rachel Madel, a speech language pathologist specializing in AAC, dive into the benefits of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC) for autistic children, both non-speaking and verbally fluent children. They dispel common misconceptions about AAC, discuss various high-tech and low-tech AAC tools, and emphasize the…

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125 | AAC Part 1 with Lilly’s Voice

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Stefanie, the president and co-founder of the nonprofit Lilly’s Voice. Stefanie shares the inspiring story of her non-speaking autistic daughter, Lilly, whose journey with augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) devices led to the creation of the nonprofit. Lilly’s Voice provides AAC…

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124 | navigating social media, research, and BIPOC representation in the autistic community with Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay is joined by Kaligirwa @blackspectrumscholar, an AuDHD communication researcher, to discuss the intersection of neurodiversity and research, with a particular emphasis on BIPOC representation within the autism community. Kali shares her personal journey of discovering her autism diagnosis and her efforts to highlight the representation…

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123 | nurturing yourself: self-compassion and self-care with Emily Hamblin

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Emily Hamblin, a parent coach and neurodivergent mom of four, discuss practical strategies for self-compassion, regulating the nervous system, and addressing the challenges parents face. The episode covers the crucial role of self-care, debunking the notion that it’s selfish, and highlights the impact it…

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122 | PANS, PANDAS, and neurodivergence with Dr. Joy Eberhardt

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Joy Eberhardt, a holistic pediatrician specializing in integrative and functional medicine, discuss PANS (Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) and PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections). They delve into the complexities of diagnosing these conditions, particularly in neurodivergent children, and the importance…

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121 | navigating culture and religion with Sunita Theiss

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Sunita Theiss, an Indian neurodivergent mom, discuss Sunita’s journey through autism diagnoses for herself and her children, the impact of South Asian cultural values on her parenting, and the integration of neurodivergent needs within religious communities. Sunita shares her personal experiences, the challenges of…

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120 | embracing uncertainty and making mistakes in parenting your autistic child

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 In this solo episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of being comfortable with being wrong and sitting with the discomfort that accompanies it. She draws from her personal experiences and professional journey to provide insights on navigating life with an autistic child while balancing evidence-based practices with…

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119 | navigating neurodiversity and inclusion in education with Chandele Morris

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Chandele Morris, an inclusive educational consultant and author, discuss the barriers in the educational system, the importance of understanding neurodiversity and tangible steps to be better advocates for autistic children. Chandele shares her experiences as a former educator and a parent of an autistic/ADHD…

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118 | how to support sensory regulation at home with occupational therapist Courtney English

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Courtney English discuss: importance of sensory systems introduction to sensory profiles how to support sensory regulation at home RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Courtney English on Instagram @courtneyenglish.ot and on TikTok @courtneyenglish.ot ⚡️ get access to Courtney’s resources here, including learning about your child’s sensory…

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117 | exploring DIRFloortime in autism care with parent and advocate, Dr. Daniella Boyd

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Daniella Boyd discuss: Daniella’s personal and parental journey in navigating neurodivergence An explanation of DIRFloortime, including engagement in play and relationship-based activities. Supporting BIPOC neurodivergent children and the adaptability of Floortime to meet culture-specific needs RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Dr. Daniella Boyd through…

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116 | nurturing growth through relationships: an introduction to RDI with Dr. Sarah Wayland

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Sarah Wayland discuss: her journey and insights into using relationship-based dynamic intelligence (RDI) to enhance family bonds and your autistic child’s growth the role of co-regulation and autonomy in parenting your autistic child practical advice for parents on integrating RDI principles into daily…

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115 | PDA and IEPs: bridging the gap between home and school for autistic learners

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay, Jessica Hanzo, and Lisa Baskin Wright discuss: navigating the IEP process working with your child’s school to have a shared understanding of PDA (pathological demand avoidance), a theorized profile of autism proposing appropriate accommodations and support strategies for PDA learners RESOURCES ⚡️ keep learning and…

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114 | beyond stereotypes: recognizing autism in females

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay discusses the highly requested topic of how autism often presents in females, particularly those with low support needs. This episode would still be an informative listen if you have a son who presents with high masking autism, as the more nuanced traits are discussed. RESOURCES…

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113 | the art of low demand parenting: redefining connection and shifting expectations with Amanda Diekman

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Amanda Diekman discuss: what a low demand lifestyle is the three layers of a demand how to find joy in this parenting journey RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Amanda Diekman Instagram @lowdemandamanda  Facebook @lowdemandamanda www.amandadiekman.com Get the book ⚡️ want to learn more about Dr….

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112 | a parent’s path to supporting her PDA teen with Steph Curtis

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Steph Curtis discuss: the nuances of raising a child with pathological demand avoidance (PDA), emphasizing early detection, adapting parenting techniques, and understanding unique needs. the journey to find the right educational setting for a child with PDA, dealing with societal pressures, and the critical…

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111 | unraveling sleep challenges in autistic children: expert insights with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay and Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown, a pediatric sleep medicine physician, discuss: what sleep medicine is and how a sleep medicine physician can help the three buckets of sleep issues – medical, behavioral, and 24-hour factors education about medications that impact sleep RESOURCES ⚡️ connect with Funke…

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110 | what is PDA?

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇 Dr. Tay provides an introduction to PDA (pathological demand avoidance, also known as persistent or pervasive drive for autonomy). In this episode, we discuss: what PDA is as a theorized profile of autism varying perspectives about PDA co-occurring conditions and their overlap with PDA support strategies and…

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