Podcast

97 | tantrums vs. meltdowns: what’s really the difference?

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay and Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP discuss: understanding tantrums vs meltdowns child communication and coping strategies importance of parent regulation during meltdowns RESOURCES โšก๏ธ connect with Gabriele Nicolet, MA, CCC-SLP. she is a parent coach and founder of Orchid Kids. Instagram @speechkidsdc LinkedIn @gabriele-nicolet Facebook @…

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96 | key autism parenting mindset shifts

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay discusses: emphasizing flexibility in parenting autistic children, adapting to their unique needs. encouraging parents to accept uncertainties and learn alongside their child. understanding and embracing neurodivergent perspectives over conventional expectations. RESOURCES โšก๏ธ want to learn more about Dr. Tay’s Whole Family Approachแต€แดน and current services…

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95 | an autistic PDA parent’s journey towards self-discovery with Katherine L’Etang

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay and Katherine L’Etang of @theneurodiversitymom discuss: The journey of self-realization as an autistic woman and navigating life with autistic children. Learning about neurodiversity and how to become an advocate. Insights into PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), a profile of autism, and adopting a neuroaffirming low demand…

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94 | understanding psychiatry, medication, and autism: a deep dive with Dr. Arielle Rubin

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay and Dr. Arielle Rubin, a board-certified child and adolescent psychiatrist, discuss: the field of psychiatry and its role in diagnosing autism and co-occurring conditions treating anxiety, depression, and ADHD in the context of autism different options and considerations when it comes to medication RESOURCES โšก๏ธโšก๏ธConnect…

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93 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFT

93 | navigating your relationship: parenting and neurodivergence with Pasha Marlowe, MFT ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay and Pasha Marlowe, marriage and family therapist / neurodiversity coach, discuss: challenges in family relationships when children or partners are neurodivergent the role of communication and balancing individual needs in neurodivergent families insights…

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92 | getting โ€œdeluluโ€ in autism parenting: the power of self-belief

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay discusses: the concept of getting โ€œdeluluโ€ in the context of autism parenting believing in your autistic child’s communication and developmental potential through various methods the transformative effect of applying ‘getting delulu’ to personal growth and aspirations RESOURCES โšก๏ธ want to learn more about Dr. Tay’s…

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91 | manifestation, slowing down, and loosening expectations with autism parent Marisa Hohaia

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay and anti-hustle coach + autism parent Marisa Hohaia discuss: her family’s autism journey, the impact of her son’s diagnosis on her work, and her philosophy of living that helps them navigate through their life the importance of enjoying the present moment and letting go of…

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90 | reflecting on 2023 and prepping for 2024 as an autism parent

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses reflecting on 2023 and prepping for 2024. she emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, setting realistic and progressive goals, and taking inventory of strengths and support needs for oneself and your autistic child. she talks about her own personal journey, shares the…

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89 | my candid thoughts as an autism sibling on fairness

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ in a candid, impromptu episode of her podcast, I address a social media video that portrays being a sibling of a neurodivergent child as unfair. while I acknowledge the challenges of parenting autistic children, I offer a different perspective based on my personal experience as a sibling…

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88 | why your child’s handwriting is important with Kelli Fetter

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay hosts an in-depth discussion with Kelli Fetter, an occupational therapist and certified handwriting specialist. they explore the common challenges autistic children encounter with handwriting, relating to fine motor difficulties and learning disabilities. Kelli provides valuable insights on the integral connection between handwriting and overall literacy….

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87 | staying present in the midst of hardships: my personal story applied to autism parenting

in this mini episode, I discuss my journey of unexpectedly navigating my dog Charlotte’s cancer diagnosis, paralleling it with lessons for an autism parenting journey. I discuss the importance of ‘living in the present moment’ by constantly grounding oneself in available data and of accepting and acknowledging emotions instead of suppressing them. I share my…

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86 | pediatrics, autism, and direct primary care with Dr. Phil Boucher

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay hosts Dr. Phil Boucher, a pediatrician working within the direct primary care model. they discuss autism, including advocating for your child and support needs like sleep and additional testing. Dr. Boucher explains the challenges of traditional healthcare and his transition to the direct primary care…

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85 | neurodivergence and the state of autism research: insights from autistic researcher Chelsea Verrette

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay hosts autistic autism researcher Chelsea Verrette, who provides her insights on the current state of autism research. we discuss the importance of language in discussions about neurodivergence and the gaps in the existing literature. the conversation centers on shifting from a deficit-based model to incorporating…

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84 | building community: an autism mama’s story with Jamie Lin Brown

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ in this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by Jamie Lin Brown, an autism mama, to discuss the importance of building a strong community for parents of autistic children. the conversation focuses on the need to view the child holistically, integrating physical, mental, and emotional aspects of their…

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83 | preparing for the holiday season: mindful approaches and tips for families with autistic children

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ in this episode, Dr. Tay talks about helpful tips and strategies for autism families navigating the holiday season. we discuss the importance of preparing for potential disruptions to routines, setting realistic expectations, giving choices, and setting boundaries. Dr. Tay addresses several elements including helping your child anticipate…

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82 | advocacy, social media, and the power of parental support: a conversation with with Dr. Myava Clark and her son, Chris Clark

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay hosts mother-son duo, Dr. Myava Clark and Chris Clark, to discuss their experiences and advocacy for navigating educational support systems for children with learning differences. Dr. Clark shares her early advocacy efforts for Chris who experienced developmental delays and learning differences. Chris talks about his…

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81 | drowning prevention and swim safety for autistic children with Kira La Forgia

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses swim and water safety for autistic children with Kira La Forgia, the COO of Floatie’s Swim School and founder of The Paradigmm HR. they discuss the importance of swim lessons and creating a safe environment around water. Kira shares tips for…

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80 | the power of stillness: navigating autism parenting with intention and self-care

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ in this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the importance of stillness and how it can benefit parents navigating the autism parenting journey. she shares her personal experience with breathwork and therapy, highlighting the power of slowing down and regulating the nervous system. Dr. Tay emphasizes the need for…

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79 | Autistic Not Weird: neurodiversity + advocacy with Chris Bonnello

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay welcomes Chris Bonnello, an autistic advocate, author, and a Rubik’s cube master, to the podcast. Chris shares his journey from the classroom to advocacy, highlighting the importance of promoting neurodivergence. he talks about his late autism diagnosis at 24 and how this led him to…

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78 | what it means to be 2E: identifying and assessing twice-exceptional kids with Dr. Nicole Michaeli

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay welcomes Dr. Nicole Michaeli, a pediatric psychologist specializing in comprehensive evaluations, to the podcast. we discuss the twice-exceptional (2E) profile of children who are gifted and have learning or developmental disabilities. the episode includes discussions about asynchronous development characteristic of 2E children as well as…

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