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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ Dr. Tay sits down with Jessie Caraway, creator of the If You Know One Project, to talk about her familyโ€™s journey, her daughterโ€™s autism diagnosis, and how the project grew out of a desire to build community and awareness. They reflect on the long road to an […]

194 | embracing humanity + connection in autism with jessie caraway of the if you know one project

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ this episode is a replay of my instagram live q+a, where we processed the recent press conference linking autism and tylenol. i shared reflections on research, stigma, and neurodiversity-affirming care, and answered parent questions in real time.   we covered the nuance of research, medication conversations, ableism […]

193 | instagram live q&a replay: autism headlines, affirming supports, + the just one thing challenge

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this mini, spontaneous episode, Dr. Tay addresses the recent press conference where the administration linked autism to Tylenol, causing guilt and anxiety among parents. She emphasizes the importance of taking time to process emotions, the prevalence of misinformation, and the need for compassion. Dr. Tay reassures […]

192 | processing the press on autism and Tylenol

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this mini episode, Dr. Tay shares a sneak peek into a training within EVOLVE the memberhsip. Sh dives into the concept of low demand parenting, particularly for families with children who resonate with the PDA profile. Dr. Tay introduces and explains the “3 Bucket Approach” to […]

191 | navigating demands + boundaries with the 3 bucket approach

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this episode, Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist and parental coach specializing in neurodiversity affirming care, explores the concept of jealousy and why it is a valid and normal emotion. Dr. Tay discusses the importance of experiencing and processing jealousy, rather than suppressing it, and how […]

190 | jealousy in autism parenting: why itโ€™s normal (and what to do with it)

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 ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this episode, Dr. Tay delves into the underexplored topic of couples therapy within the autism community, emphasizing its proactive rather than reactive use. Joined by Dr. Ali Perkinson, a neurodiverse couples therapist and licensed psychologist, the discussion covers how couples therapy can support harmonious family dynamics, […]

189 | building a neuro-inclusive family through couples therapy with Dr. Ali

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this episode, Dr. Tay discusses the chaos surrounding the start of a new school year, especially for families of autistic kids. Sharing insights and practical advice from her extensive experience, she addresses anticipatory anxiety, the challenges of advocating within educational systems, and the importance of psychological […]

188 | the chaos of the new school year

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ this week, iโ€™m giving you a behind-the-scenes listen into a question from inside EVOLVE the membership โ€” my neurodiversity-affirming space for parents of autistic children. in our private weekly q&a, a parent asked how to explain their childโ€™s autism diagnosis to other adults in a way thatโ€™s […]

187 | a membership sneak peek: neuroaffirming ways to share a diagnosis Q+A

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this episode, Dr. Tay addresses a commonly asked question: Is the Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule, Second Edition (ADOS-2) necessary for an autism diagnosis? Dr. Tay explains what the ADOS-2 is, its role in autism evaluations, and clarifies that while it is a widely respected tool, it […]

186 | do you really need the ADOS-2 to diagnose autism?

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) ๐Ÿ‘‡ In this solo episode, Dr. Tay dives into the concept of perfectionism in autism parenting, sharing insights from her own journey and the experiences of parents she works with. Dr. Tay discusses the challenges of striving for perfection, the importance of being present, and the benefits of […]

185 | itโ€™s ok to three-putt: golf metaphors for autism parenting