In this special mini-episode Dr. Tay, a child psychologist specializing in autism, discusses how extended family members can better support parents of autistic children during the holiday season. Drawing on over a decade of experience and direct feedback from parents, Dr. Tay shares practical advice, such as understanding triggers, recognizing the effort parents put into preparing for events, and ways to offer meaningful help. This episode is what your loved one wants you to know! A special thank you to the parents who submitted their insights and are featured on this episode.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
01:12 Understanding Autism and Neurodiversity
02:21 Holiday Support for Autistic Children
03:29 Parental Insights and Requests
06:38 Common Misunderstandings and Challenges
15:07 Sensory and Social Considerations
18:38 Creating a Supportive Environment for Neurodivergent Children
19:05 Offering Help and Dropping Judgment
20:21 Understanding Meltdowns and Neurodivergence
21:11 Challenges in Getting Diagnoses and Support
21:51 Validating Parents’ Efforts and Experiences
23:23 Navigating Family Traditions and Accommodations
27:18 Grief and Emotional Complexity in Parenting
32:08 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
RESOURCES
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay’s Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>