161 | parenting, emotions, and cultural reflections with Lisa Jean-Francois

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In this insightful episode, Dr. Tay welcomes Lisa Jean-Francois, known as @consciouslylisa_ on social media. Lisa shares her in-depth and personal journey of parenting two autistic children. The conversation covers her initial struggles and breakthroughs in understanding autism, the unexpected discovery of her husband’s late diagnosis, and her introspective look at her possible neurodivergence. Lisa also discusses her adaptation of gentle and conscious parenting techniques to align with her family’s unique cultural context and needs. The episode delves into the challenges and strategies for raising autistic children, including the importance of community support and the varying experiences across different neurodivergence spectrums. Crucially, this episode emphasizes the importance of not generalizing autism experiences and highlights the necessity of tailored approaches in both understanding and parenting.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

01:36 Lisa’s Parenting Journey

02:45 Early Signs and Diagnosis

05:57 Navigating Misdiagnosis and Acceptance

10:01 Impact on Family and Personal Reflections

17:40 Husband’s Realization and Family Dynamics

22:33 Self-Identification and Broader Implications

26:24 Navigating Parental Self-Diagnosis

27:38 The Complexity of Diagnosing Neurodivergence

31:00 Parenting Approaches and Cultural Adaptations

35:01 Challenges and Strategies in Gentle Parenting

43:53 The Importance of Individual Experiences

46:15 Connecting and Learning from the Community

49:40 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

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